Trapped in a Maze

When I was dealing with the emotional turmoil during my separation phase I would use music and lyrics as an escape.  I found that when I go through a hard time in life it would help me to listen to songs that relate to the situation I was going through. Until now, I would just listen to songs, but not pay attention to the details or the actual lyrics. I heard songs all the time but haven’t heard the words and actually listened. That might go for most of our relationships.  You… Read More

Dealing with the Stress…

A divorce is one of the most stressful times of your life. It has been compared to the stress a loved one suffers when there is a death of a loved one. I guess that analogy makes sense since it is really the death of a marriage. You have to come to terms with this quickly, as who ever filed for divorce already has. I now realize that it took me a long time to come to terms with my own divorce – as I am sure it did for a lot… Read More